Hetero-sexual, homo-sexual, bi-sexual, whether engaged, young or else as it would be only a matter of time for every human being beginning to put in action his sexuality of preference in a profound and healthy manner.
In respects to exercising sexuality thoroughly, one too many are tended to either overlook or let it bypass unnoticed how important our senses mean. So I did go on to refer to the five basic human senses.
There are those who would rather keep their eyes open for reveling on sexual intercourse thoroughly. On the other hand, whenever one can’t see what takes place, it’s possible to relish on the most diverse stimuli as capable of evoking a multitude of emotions, heightening or diminishing its degree of excitement, as in the partner plays along with the other whose eyes are blindfolded, to instances few. All it takes is imagination.
Whether or not open-eyed, touch modality also means important in sex pleasure’s unveiling and retracing. Through the hands, the feet or objects of varied both texture and temperature would enable exploring own physique farther, as well as the partner’s in that heightening the most diverse sensations.
The smell also sticks out. A man or a woman could snap out reacting adversely regard odors, on which point include cigarettes, beverages, perfumes, incenses, aromatherapy candles, ointments, detergents in the midst of others. In the light of it, a scent or fragrance that would please someone might not be someone else’s idea of it. There’s always someone who gets aroused from the natural scent of his own skin or someone else’s, inasmuch as there are those inclined to think otherwise.
If the one who enjoys to listen up and come up with flowery and romantic words, happens to hear illiterate words, swearing or low profile wise, the level of arousal, consequently the optimal performance and sexual pleasure would get affected.
The reciprocative is also true. There’s whoever likes to have sex in silence much as there exist those who like to have sex amidst screaming and whining in a loud and clear mode. It’s imperative that both partners aim themselves to speak the same language.
With regards to palate, the taste of both cigarettes and alcoholic beverages, for instance, may come to interfere in sex or not, nevertheless with total disregard to whether like it or not, a pleasant breath means cornerstone for a pleasing kiss, a profound raise in level of the couple’s sexual arousal and satisfaction altogether.
It’s interesting to say that however mentioned beforehand separately the senses meant to act out simultaneously throughout our entire sexuality. Even when there’s loss or absence of the senses, likewise cases of disability, the other senses are bound to sharpen up as a mechanism of compensation.
Last but not least, the heightening of whatever these senses not just make part, but also play overall role sexuality-wise, mean key fundamental when seeking to reach out for higher sexual pleasure heights. The heightening of senses by and large could and certainly can come in favor of bodily awareness, which would end up by influencing and deeply in the improvement of everyone’s sexual performance.
By Kelly Cristine Barbosa Cherulli
Psychologist and Sexologist