In "sexual impotence", the problem is to achieve erection. In 'premature
ejaculation" the problem is to keep erection. Because, in this case,
man ejaculates involuntarily right at the beginning of sex intercourse
or relation and his penis withers. The cause of premature ejaculation
being often the high degree of sexual tension. Perhaps, a man could
be simply overexcited, which is usual on the first time a boy makes
love to his partner.
Control over ejaculation is also a manner of sex
technique that takes sometime to be mastered. Hence, the emphasis
that most specialists give to the practice and to tolerance, success
in the sex relationship increases as time goes by. The first sexual
relation between two people rarely corresponds to expectations.
At times, a man may learn self-control, concentrating
intensely on any idea that detours his attention. Employing different
positions in the sex act is also a resource to tapped on, much as
to retard orgasm, as to induce it at desired moment.
One of the reasons suggested to explain premature
ejaculation is that, in some cases at least, a man's first experiences
were done with prostitutes who wanted him to hurry up. Better still,
a relation took place under circumstances on which point the sex act
should be accomplished, rapidly.
Absolutely, reactions of fore partners regarding
the body and the genitals can either override or build up confidence
and, by the way a person's capacity. In other words, initial experiences
may affect sex activities lately.
Exist cases in which incapacity to reach orgasm is
caused by anatomical malformation or by physiological deficiencies.
For example, when a woman constantly finds intercourse, a.k.a. sex
act, painful or difficult, should seek out a doctor in order to verify
if her difficulty has any physical cause.
Those men who wish, whether unconsciously or not,
to avoid sexual relations, at large or with a woman in particular,
may react to the situation with various reactions, penial flaccidity,
erection loss when penetration time approaches, and ejaculation prior
or shortly after penetration. There are several techniques to overcome
anxiety there is underlying in the majority of such cases.
The most famous of them all consists in reeducation
of sex acceptance, followed by partner aided training that teaches
a man to prolong the situation further.
The technique is such, she masturbates him several
times, usually getting near orgasm threshold and after that forcing
a pause, during which the penis glans could be squeezed between the
thumb and the index finger and the middle finger, placed at the tip
end of glans. Thus, a man learns to control himself.
Most men with premature ejaculation go through an
inverse a condition. That is, a difficulty or inability to ejaculate
in the vagina after being their original sexually linked disorder
successfully treated. That isn't a result of wishful thinking to prevent
pregnancy, but probably related, somehow, to lack of practice. Solution
might come with time, with the build up of sexual experiences.
By Jonatas Dornelles
Anthropologist
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