Having a Sex Quickie
A quickie is the kind of sexual relation that the couples most resort on. It stands for sex without so much foreplay and preferably in a nick of time. But there’s more in it than catches an eye.
One of the key requisites for a reasonable quickie is the couple being in the same wavelength, as in cuddling and understanding. Without it either of them could grow bored and feel minimized or even despised. No matter how naïve it seems a sexual relation imbues much more than physical contact, then when it comes to having a quickie it becomes quite loud.
Why this requisite is so important? Because, given its short threshold it takes a lot of surrender and reassurance too. Still, foreplay is literally discarded, so the couple must be in tune with each other to get straight to the point.
Whoever relies on it wants all that a longer sexual intercourse could offer. Lust, orgasm, cuddles, every single bit would play a role in it inasmuch as coming out of it feeling fulfilled.
Choosing the right location is just as important. Some people might consider having their quickie done in the car, still in bed, before setting off to work or perhaps in their relatives’ bathroom whilst having a shower. And they must come together so that neither would feel undermined or even disrespected in their own space.
A quickie is such pleasant alternative for the old sex. As fast, it really got the power to bring out profound lust without much thinking. A string of fantasies is set in motion always when it takes place. There might be the stigma of getting caught in some less fanciful location, for instance under the staircase, at the playground or lift and so on.
Indulging in sex this way, off chance, means normal and even healthier. What should be avoided is turning it mainstay. It’s nice, tasty, pleasure ridden but kept as the main sexual activity would end up by turning sex into an involuntary act, in which point a single stroke is all it takes to gear things up.
But that’s not what sex is all about. It calls for novelties alright as long as it doesn’t become the main course. The more experimentation there’s, the better the sexual rapport, as far as sexuality goes. A balance act stricken between the physical and psychological levels, upon tenderness and cuddling is what ultimate sex is all about.
In short, a quickie can be good and is even better if done along with someone that can be trusted. Its climax can be breathtaking and might present an alternative in itself for those without much time or leverage to spare while thriving on a time consuming sexual rapport.
Anne Griza
Sexologist
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