Anal sex, a penis entering either a female or a male anus. This penetrative
sex as another mode of pleasure wield during sexual intercourse.
Nerve bundles equally to other sexual stimuli sensitive body parts
serve the anus. It’s known that anal sex takes a lot of flak from
sexual taboos of modern society. Some misinformed people hold anal
sex as dirty and gruesome. A line of perception that too has deteriorated
since the advent of the AIDS pandemic.
A sexual pleasure yielded believed to stem even from taboo mongering,
whereupon the act of doing something whether wrong or naughty according
to society’ is perhaps utterly exciting. As for men, given that the
anus is poorly lubricated and somewhat tight, renders the idea even
more exciting.
The various positions that a female figure should be at for more
comfort in penetrative sex is such highly exciting factor for men
as well, who reportedly feel more powerful, dominant, in sexual affairs.
However, anal sex isn’t every one’s cup of tea. People should know
best what gives them sexual pleasure. There are those who would enjoy
licking and touching but won’t tolerate the idea of penetrative sex.
For the sake of information, the anus is extremely stretchable and
bound to endure even a fatty-penis. So much for fist fucking, a highly
skilful technique supposedly gives off great pleasure. Not for the
fainthearted tough, for apprentice starts with one finger and builds
up from there. As known, the rectum is the final part of the digestive
tract and so highly contagious, mostly bacteria. Contact with other
body parts may cause serious infections. Anal sex is STD’s main door
such as AIDS and Hepatitis B, thus the need for safer sex. The first
anal sex experience may be followed by pain or discomfort, as much
as inexperience, tension and insecurity are influencing factors. However,
as time goes by, if someone enjoys anal sex will turn more relaxed
as pain tends to recede turning into sexual pleasure.
Muscles relax from easygoing mind-approach, that is to say, anal
sex pleasure takes self-control. Feeling at ease helps self-acknowledgement.
When having shower try and shovel a finger up ever so slowly while
releasing muscle tension. Keep nails short and always lubricated before
inserting in anything. When a finger starts to feel kind of all right
go for twos and then threes, constantly probing before moving onto
serious poking. And with practice, anyone can afford a whole hand
in and then some.
Sex partners should take advantage of foreplay added by loads of
lubes or play the old 69 giving the anus a good lather of saliva prior
penetration.
Some sexual positions enable anal sex farther, made possible by popular
demand are:
She on top- ideal for the newcomer as she gets to set pace and depth
of penetration.
From rear- the old in out as she kneels down exposing her hidden
secrets, now there’s a catch, for each time a penis goes inside the
vagina the condom has to be changed before it goes in the anus due
to the threat of cross-infection. Sign of the times.
Face to face- she on her back bring knees up to chest height placing
feet on his shoulders. Easy penetrative angle of sex, unsuitable
for beginners.
Back view- she places a pillow mound underneath her tummy while he
lies on top opening her cheeks with hands. Degree of difficulty-quite
hard.
But it all comes down to personal experience, Find out yours and
spread around.
By Adriana Sommer da Costa
Psychologist and Sexologist
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