Group sex, a rather anonymous sexual practice. But why this happens?
Absolutely, dealing with sex and sexuality pertaining issues often includes
difficulty, taboos and preconceived ideas. Forcibly, not every one feels
fit to talk about this kind of subject. And that's the reason why there
still exists, at present days, difficulty so evident in kid's education.
Even with the wake of sexual revolution, long time ago, our society,
still brings expressive remnants of concerns about sex, and its forms
of providing pleasure. We're sick and tired of knowing that when it
come s to sex, we're referring to the human nature, a instinctive
power that is born with the being detached of any kind of rule or
limitation.
But rational being we are, and thus we need to develop within a society,
which includes family, school and work that surely will impose us
rules. However, there wouldn't be because of such that the power of
our desires should be eliminated. A human being has his desires, sexual
fantasies, and each one with his life stories, with his expectations,
wills and even curiosities about sexual practices. There may or may
not be accepted by people, but exists for sure. Therein lies the reason
for this article, group sex.
Doubtless, group sex is motive for a great deal of curiosity, which
these days could already be satiated by discreet manner. After all,
the subject in itself brings about known taboos.
The internet is means ideal for this sort of information, for there
are sites that expose it in clear and informative manner. On which
point leaving the person in anonymity, without feeling exposed and
with doubts clarified somehow.
Group sex is anything but sexual fantasy, which mulls over people's
heads until sassing out their will. But such sexual fantasy can also
come followed by fears and concerns like "could I be normal"? 'would
my sexual desires be absurd?" so far, and it happens exactly because
we live in a society full of cultural and religious values, which
would never admit this kind of sexual relation.
It's rather complicated to deal with this sort of situation that
places in confront desires. A sexual fantasy of sexual practice that
isn't accepted by most people, after all undermine, suppressing a
desire isn't something that goes well with a human being.
We are referring here to a sexual desire that is healthy since within
an existing reality and there's a lot of people adept to group sex.
People seek relationships of better quality so that more prone to
fulfill their sexual fantasies and kick in more dialogue with sex
partners as well as further exchanging experiences. It can only improve
relationships.
By the way, it's worth mentioning that whoever opts for such sexual
practice may suffer consequences whether personal-as in deception
for this maybe not as expected, or arising interpersonal conflicts.
Thus, group sex for those willing to experiment might be either good
or bad. For all I care, it's important that those involved in don't
do it only for the sake of others' sexual delight.
By Adriana
Sommer da Costa
Psychologist and Sexologist |
