All too often we hear people moaning that we have to know our own body
in order to achieve pleasure in the best possible way. It’s known that
usually people don’t spend much time in trying to learn about themselves.
Society oaths sexas dirty and uncomely,
so as to be ashamed of. Right then, what could we do to know the opposite
sex a little bit better? To talk about the female body and all its
intricacies renders such a question even more complicated. Let’s add
up to one of the most important (and underestimated) features in the
universe of the female sexuality.
First of all, a little bit of biology for the sake of information.
Since male and female babies are identical until a certain period
of gestation, and both the penis and the clitoris originate from exact
the same tissue. The differences begin to pop up in the male baby
in the presence of testosterone, hence the primary tissue develops
into a penis. Otherwise, in the absence of testosterone, this tissue
will continuous to develop steady until turning into a clitoris, and
then we’ll have a girl.
With this explanation, we’re able to state that the clitoris is the
real correspondent to the penis as opposed to the vagina, as it was
previously thought and some people hold true. Now, imagine all that
penis sensitivity, well known by the boys, concentrated in an organ
by the size of a clitoris. That’s right, the woman has about the same
amount of nerve endings on the clitoris that a man has in his penis.
The clitoris has also the exclusivity of being the only organ
in the human body whose function providessexual
pleasure solely. As in men, the penis has also the function of eliminating
urine through the urethra.
Where’s this “magic button” known by igniting the female sexuality’s
mechanism actually located? As woman she stands a better chance to
explore herself and discover how to best stimulate her clitoris. In
contrast men have a hard time reaching the desirable level of intimacy
to talk their partners into showing how they’d like to be aroused.
Or even to ask her to allow him to explore her body in search for
that magical spot.
The clitoris is located at the top of the vulva, where the labia
meet, lays hidden by the clitoral hood, which corresponds to the prepuce
in men. You can find the clitoris by gently pressing down the area
where the labia meet and will feel a lump about the size of a grain
(although sizes may vary). But it represents only a tiny portion of
the clitoris. In fact, the clitoris extends inside whose shaft draws
until in and around the vagina’s opening, which displays about 9cm
in length. When a woman gets aroused, the erectile tissue that builds
the shaft, swells and fills up with blood (so does the penis), then
it acts along with the vaginal muscles in the tightening process.
In fact, some researches point that the clitoris has a strong connection
with the G Spot. Which theoretically implies that the clitoris receives
indirect stimulation from other body parts. Nonetheless such indirect
stimulation takes direct contact with the clitoris to provoke orgasm.
So, how could it be properly stimulated? Obviously, each woman has
likings and dislikes about her own sexuality,
but some tips may come in hand next time, when necessary.
- Most women find irritating being stimulated directly on the clitoris.
This is so because the gland may feel uncomfortable when rubbed. Otherwise,
you better off to massage the clitoris by the hood, which turns out
- Women hold a grudge about men who don’t invest time in trying to
discover how they’d like to be stimulated. It’s trial and error. Overcome
shame and ask her what she likes best. Use and abuse of masturbation,
oral sex, and sex toys.
- No one would known better than a woman herself how it should feel.
Boldly ask your partner to masturbate in front of you. More than giving
lectures, she could perform an exciting pep show beautifully. Whenever
possible, have her to guide your hand in, while she shows you how
to tickle and touch her love triangle.
- During oral sex, be as gentle as pulling
your foreskin back. Men usually enjoy receiving oral sex as vacuum
cleaners. Let’s not overlook the clitoris’ over sensibility, for tenderness
speaks out loud. Use your tongue and lips making circular movements,
and keep an eye on your partner’s reactions. If something doesn’t
click, switch approach, and with a hint of imagination create new
Keep in mind that subtlety is essential. Giving women pleasure isn’t
as easy as pleasing yourself, seeing their complex sexuality.
Don’t expect it to work first hand. With a build up of intimacy and
a bit of practice, we won’t guarantee mastering total expertise, but
rest assured that you will give your best half some unforgettable
moments. She will be pleased.