Mysterious is the ways that lead to the understanding of the feminine
mind. As intricate as it may seem, the feminine mind continues to be
an indecipherable enigma for men. Men hardly know what goes on in their
own minds and in that how to get to the women’s heart in order to seduce
them? If you’re a man and you’re interested, keep up with the following
uncertainties, since for men, women’s minds are nothing but uncertainties.
To seduce a woman is not such an easy task. Flowers, a good restaurant,
trying to impress her (what a mind job!), everything goes in the attempt
to get to her heart.
Women work differently in comparison to men. Women’s minds have tortuous
ways and to get to them as to have a close relationship demands cleverness.
So, there goes a tip: men’s sexual urge
is generally a reason for women’s disappointment. Like the animals,
men and women have a love ritual to run before the consummation of
the affair, which is praised by women. Until this consummation, which
is generally decided by the women, men run around them like a dog
without a bone, pleasing them in every possible manner until the so
expected “yes”. No matter how things have changed since the sexual
Revolution of the 60’s, women will always enjoy being pleased by men.
Women are sensible and delicate individuals, so they expect a little
bit of these same attributes from the men who are trying to seduce
them. Therefore, in order to achieve their goal, men ought to play
the game of seduction by women’s rules. Being objective, going straight
to the point - in the sense, for example, to satiate sexual
urges -, here, on this matter of seducing, has nothing to do with
pleasing them. That’s why no hurry is suggested.
Beauty and brightness - Conversely to the men, women don’t give this
too much importance to the beauty. Of course they feel attracted by
handsome guys, but such a quality if not accompanied with intellectual
attributes, is worthless. Ok, if you are an Adonis your beauty speaks
for itself and you should not be reading this, but if you’re not...
It is much more relevant for women that men show sensibility, intelligence,
sense of humor than the way they look. Again, if the man happens to
add these two qualities (beauty and brightness), ok, better for him,
otherwise this should not be a reason for too much concern. It is
not a general rule, but intelligence, sense of humor or sensibility
(perhaps all of which together) may bring balance to the equation
of those who lack beauty. An ugly but smart man may perfectly achieve
his goal to seduce a woman. Furthermore, beauty is a subjective matter
that varies from person to person.
Humor - Women like men who make them laugh. Men who have this ability
denote intelligence. The man doesn’t exactly need to be a clown (this
would repel them instead), but extracting a smile from their faces
indicates progress in the intent of getting their attention and sympathy.
A good round of laughs and sincere smiles sets the mood towards a
relaxed atmosphere, which opens way for intimacy. That’s when the
drinks come in. Alcohol (in a measured manner) turns laughs easier
to come out. All this combined with the proper sense of humor may
be an explosive invitational combination for the woman to become receptive.
Mutual seduction - And by the way, in a personal interrelation, who
seduces who? It is possible that while the man assumes he is the one,
who is seducing the woman, in fact it is her, who has already irreparably
seduced him. If you’re trying to seduce a woman, isn’t it possible
that it is so because you have already been hooked like a fish? And
if she has already deliberately seduced you, wouldn’t it be the case
to ask if the one who’s seduced you did this because you also have
already seduced her without even notice it? Assumptions to make.
Whatever the ways to seduce a woman, the important thing is to never
let the opportunity of seducing someone go wasted. Depending on the
woman, the regret could be immeasurable. And so could be the reward
for having tried at least.